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  1. My Sister Won’t Vacation With My Kids. Is She Being Selfish? Well, Today

    Our Ask the Therapist columnist, Lori Gottlieb, advises a reader whose sibling moved away and then canceled a family trip.

  2. Could Free Child Care Last the Full Day? Some Working Parents Hope So. New York, Today

    New York City will start offering free child care for 2-year-olds this fall. A question for the Mamdani administration is whether it will be available past 2:30 p.m.

  3. Tiny Love Stories: ‘At 35, I Lost My Virginity’ Style, Yesterday

    Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words.

  4. Teens Don’t Need No Thought Control Opinion, Yesterday

    The high schoolers fighting back against tech use.

  5. In Talking to Parents About Vaccines, Pediatricians Navigate a Sea of Misinformation Health, Yesterday

    Practitioners nationwide are striving to do what’s best for children’s health, while staying supportive in the face of mistrust and confusion.

  6. A.I. Incites a New Wave of Grieving Parents Fighting for Online Safety Technology, March 10

    Blaming chatbots, they are joining an earlier push for better protections by parents who say social media contributed to their children’s deaths.

  7. iPads in Kindergarten, YouTube on Breaks: The School Screen-Time Battle New York, March 10

    Mounting evidence shows that excessive computer use can harm children, so parents are cutting back at home. Now, the debate has shifted to the classroom.

  8. Was Tyra Banks the Villain? Or Were We? Opinion, March 8

    A fashion insider and two culture writers dissect “America’s Next Top Model.”

  9. La comida chatarra arruinó el paladar de los niños En español, March 6

    Existió un tiempo en que los niños en Estados Unidos comían mariscos, rábanos y conservas sin quejarse. Ahora vivimos en una cultura del remilgo.

  10. Parents of School Shooters Are Being Prosecuted. Should They Be? U.S., March 5

    The country is casting an ever wider net in its search for accountability after mass shootings. Charging parents is an emerging tactic.

  11. Why Does Child Care Seem Less Affordable Than Ever? The Upshot, March 5

    It has always been expensive, but recently prices have risen faster than inflation.

  12. I Saw a Child Who Seemed Neglected. Should I Have Done Something? Magazine, March 4

    I worry that I’m piling assumptions onto a family I know nothing about, a family that might be doing its best.

  13. A.I. in New York Schools: What Lies Ahead? New York, March 4

    The city has been absent from the list of school districts around the nation that are using A.I. in the classroom. That could change.

  14. Man Who Gave His Teen a Rifle Is Guilty of Murder After School Shooting U.S., March 3

    A jury found that Colin Gray, the father of the suspect, bore criminal responsibility for the attack at a Georgia school by failing to heed warnings of his son’s struggles.

  15. Esta experta en crianza cree que tus hijos necesitan más fuego y cuchillos En español, March 3

    En ‘El arte perdido de educar’, Michaeleen Doucleff prometió simplificar la vida familiar. En su nuevo libro, ‘Dopamine Kids’, plantea un reto mayor: ¿pueden los padres renunciar a sus propios vicios y volver a lo esencial?

  16. Supreme Court Sides With Religious Parents, Blocking California’s Trans Student Policy U.S., March 3

    Christian teachers and parents challenged the state’s policies, which they say require schools to hide students’ transgender status from their parents.

  17. U.S. Schools Are Betting Big on A.I. Will New York City Be Next? New York, March 2

    This could be a pivotal year in shaping what role artificial intelligence plays in American schools. Some families want Mayor Mamdani to hit the brakes.

  18. China’s Parents Are Outsourcing the Homework Grind to A.I. World, March 2

    Parents in China are turning to A.I. chatbots and other tools to help their children gain an edge and ease the fighting over homework.

  19. China’s New Study Buddy: The A.I. Chatbot Video, March 2

    Parents in China are using homegrown chatbots like DeepSeek and Doubao as well as Google’s Gemini to help their children with homework and give them an academic edge.

  20. It’s March. Do You Know Where Your Children Are Going to Camp? New York, March 1

    For many New York City parents, the quest to find an affordable, convenient summer camp amounts to an unpleasant annual hazing ritual.

  21. This Parenting Expert Thinks Your Kids Need More Fire and Knives Style, February 28

    In “Hunt, Gather, Parent,” Michaeleen Doucleff promised to make family life easier. Her new book, “Dopamine Kids,” asks something harder: Can parents give up their own vices and let kids go back to the basics?

  22. Resorts That Are Family Friendly and Actually Cool T Magazine, February 28

    Luxury travel with children? At places like these, it’s highly possible.

  23. Instagram to Alert Parents to Teens’ Self-Harm Searches Technology, February 27

    Parents will receive notifications if a child has used the platform repeatedly to search for terms related to suicide or self-harm, but users must opt in to get them.

  24. Do I Have to Watch a Show I Dislike With My Son? Interactive, February 27

    A ruling on a dispute over quality time.

  25. I Didn’t Want to Have Kids. My Husband Did. Could Our Marriage Survive? Podcasts, February 25

    Helena de Groot thought she had decided not to become a mother. But, she found, she had to make that decision over and over again.

  26. Whatever Happened to Grown-Up Movies for Kids? Opinion, February 24

    We need stories that are more adult than Y.A. and less explicit than HBO.

  27. New Dads Aren’t a ‘Waste of Time and Space’ Opinion, February 21

    Why are we still debating paternity leave?

  28. We’re the Guardians of a Difficult Teenager. What Do We Owe Them? Magazine, February 21

    I’ve found myself carrying negative feelings that I don’t want but can’t quite shake.

  29. Me arrepentí de la casa que compramos. Casi acabó con mi matrimonio En español, February 21

    Cuando no te pones de acuerdo con tu pareja sobre el lugar más adecuado para vivir, el hogar puede convertirse en un infierno.

  30. Dad, You’re (So Not) Embarrassing Me at This Concert Style, February 21

    Across the country, dads are donning sparkly blazers and purple wigs to bond with their Gen Z and Alpha kids on their own turf, be it the Eras Tour or “KPop Demon Hunters.”

  31. A Toddler’s Gold Medal Moment Underscores Struggle for Italian Mothers World, February 20

    A champion speedskater spoke to reporters with her toddler. The focus on her child was among several instances at the Olympics that highlighted the complexities working mothers face in Italy.

  32. Their Transgender Child’s Health Care Had Ended. What Now? New York, February 19

    In many ways, the parents whose adolescents had been receiving treatment at NYU Langone Health had been expecting this call. Still, they were stunned.

  33. Alysa Liu Is Skating Again, Her Way This Time World, February 19

    At 16, out of love with the sport, Liu stepped away. Controlling her career, after years of oversight from her father, was the only way she could return.

  34. A Child Misses 3 Weeks of School. Should Protective Services Step In? New York, February 19

    A growing number of states are debating whether to alter their policies on summoning child protection officials if a student has excessive absences.

  35. Look, Ma! Or Maybe Don’t. Parents of Some Olympians Face Extreme Fear. World, February 17

    When your child races headfirst down an ice chute, leaps off ski jumps or performs snowboard tricks in midair, a medal may not be the main thing you pray for.

  36. The Olympic Toys That Are Almost as Tough to Get as a Medal World, February 16

    Fans have fallen hard for plush dolls representing Tina and Milo, the mascots of Italy’s Winter Games.

  37. The Secret to Parenting Is a Baby Monitor and 18 Friends Opinion, February 16

    You can still have a village.

  38. How Feeding the Baby Can Affect Your Marriage Opinion, February 15

    Readers discuss a guest essay asserting that formula promotes marriage equality. Also: Ethics and the Supreme Court.

  39. There’s a Reason American Kids Are Such Picky Eaters Opinion, February 15

    Blame junk food.

  40. My First Child Has a Genetic Syndrome. Can I Use I.V.F. to Spare My Second? Magazine, February 14

    With such a small risk of illness, does this type of embryo selection border on eugenics?

  41. I Had Buyer’s Remorse. It Almost Ended My Marriage. Style, February 13

    When you can’t agree on the right city to live in, home can be more hell than haven.

  42. Flexibility and Rising Costs Are Keeping Mothers at Work Business, February 12

    Labor force participation for women with small children continues to float above prepandemic levels, thanks to flexible work setups — and rising costs.

  43. Anti-Vaccine Influencers Are Only Getting Stronger Opinion, December 17

    I was wrong about how to push back.

  44. The Laptop That Ate Your Child’s Classroom Opinion, November 16

    Asking students to drill down on their schoolwork amid an array of digital distractions is inimical to learning.

  45. What Women Really Want: Work Boundaries Opinion, November 2

    Discussion of women in the workplace often focuses on flexible hours, but what’s actually needed is shift work — pioneered by the medical profession.

  46. Seeking Covid Shots for Their Children, Some Parents Hit a Wall Well, October 7

    Children under 12 need different versions of Covid vaccines, but many pharmacies and pediatricians’ offices aren’t stocking them.

  47. Kennedy’s Vaccine Panel Is a Calamity Opinion, September 19

    “We should be thinking that we’re heading for more damaging changes.”

  48. In Texas, Parents Fighting Vaccinations Say Their Movement Is Winning U.S., September 18

    Public health advocates hoped that the measles outbreak might persuade the reluctant to get shots. That has not turned out to be true.

  49. Robert F. Kennedy Jr.’s Impact So Far: ‘The Worst Possible Case’ Opinion, August 13

    David Wallace-Wells and Emily Oster argue that the effects of MAHA will be long-lasting.

  50. This Ohio Farm Community Is a Mecca for the ‘MAHA Mom’ U.S., August 11

    In a neighborhood that appeals to people from both the right and the left, residents strive for a finely tuned state of political harmony.

  51. Robert F. Kennedy Jr. Has an Excited Fan Club: Conservative Christian Moms National, January 28

    These parents believe in home-schooling and distrust food and drug companies. In Kennedy, they see “a bull in the china shop.”

  52. Pediatricians Shift Tactics to Sway Vaccine Skeptics Well, January 24

    As trust in medicine declines and vaccine hesitancy spreads, doctors are changing how they talk about lifesaving childhood shots.

  53. Did School Battles Hurt Democrats in Liberal Strongholds? National, November 18

    Voters in the Virginia suburbs shifted toward Trump. Some said they were still frustrated by pandemic closures and fights over gender, race and testing in schools.

  54. Tiny Love Stories: ‘I Had a Crush on the Teacher’ Styles, September 10

    Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words.

  55. Does Everyone Want to Be on the ‘Mommy Track’? Op Ed, March 16

    More people are rejecting the false binary of remote work vs. the corporate ladder.

  56. ‘What American Families Experienced Is Not Something That You Get Over’ Op Ed, March 13

    Four years after the pandemic began, parents continue to struggle with a broken child care system, but there’s reason to hope for a better future.

  57. How to Parent in a World Under Siege? Book Review, March 12

    In her elegant essay collection, “Lessons for Survival,” Emily Raboteau confronts climate collapse, societal breakdown and the Covid pandemic while trying to raise children in a responsible way.

  58. Resfriados, tos y covid: por qué parece que estamos siempre enfermos En español, January 9

    Después de la pandemia, el invierno parece ser un desfile interminable de malestares. ¿Pasó algo?

  59. The Case of the Never-Ending Illness Well, December 15

    Post-pandemic, winter has become one big blur of coughs and colds. Did something change?

  60. Is Remote Work the Answer to Women’s Prayers, or a New ‘Mommy Track’? Sunday Business, November 12

    Post-pandemic work-from-home norms allowed more women to stay in the work force than ever before. Remote work could also make it harder to get ahead.

  61. The ‘Silver Lining to the Pandemic’ for Working Mothers Upshot, October 28

    The share of women working has reached a record high, with the biggest increases among mothers of children under 5.

  62. The Upside of a Population Decline Letters, October 5

    Readers disagree with an essay expressing concern about a decline after a peak. Also: Rudy Giuliani’s drinking; book bans; masks in hospitals; wedding magic.

  63. Fathers Gained Family Time in the Pandemic. Many Don’t Want to Give It Back. Upshot, March 12

    A substantial share of fathers who took on more domestic work during lockdowns have kept it up, new data shows, and rearranged their work lives to do so.

  64. Arguing About Masks and Mandates Letters, February 22

    Readers criticize a column by Bret Stephens asserting that mask mandates were ineffective. Also: Children and loss; John Fetterman; population growth.

  65. The New Etiquette of Kids and Coughs Op Ed, December 14

    When a viral question goes viral.

  66. The Return of Holiday Season Agita Op Ed, November 16

    The pandemic gave some parents a reprieve. That may be over.

  67. Remote Work Is Here to Stay. Lean In, Employers. Op Ed, October 22

    A baby boomlet may not have been 2021’s only productivity increase.

  68. Spending on Children Surged During the Pandemic. It Didn’t Last. National, October 1

    As programs expire, such federal spending is returning to prior levels: $1 for every $6 spent on older adults.

  69. Want to Regain Parents’ Trust, Public Health Institutions? Be Humble. Op Ed, September 10

    Definitive statements on open questions isn’t the way.

  70. Prosecute Trump, Despite the Risks? Letters, September 1

    Readers react to an editorial urging an indictment to show that he “is not above the law.” Also: Abortion and data privacy; Moderna’s suit; children’s mental health.

  71. Lo que debes saber para proteger a tus hijos de la viruela del mono en Español, August 22

    Según los expertos, los niños no tienen riesgo alto de infección. Pero ofrecen consejos para cuidar a todos en el regreso a clases, desde los más pequeños hasta los universitarios.

  72. How to Protect Against Monkeypox as School Starts Well, August 17

    Experts say children are not at a high risk of infection. But they have advice to keep everyone — from toddlers to college kids — safe.

  73. Here’s What School Covid Policies Should Look Like This Year Op Ed, August 4

    The crisis kids face at this point in the pandemic is not the virus but the cost of so many years of disrupted school.

  74. How Some Parents Changed Their Politics in the Pandemic Business, August 1

    They were once Democrats and Republicans. But fears for their children in the pandemic transformed their thinking, turning them into single-issue voters for November’s midterms.

  75. Few Parents Intend to Have Very Young Children Vaccinated Against Covid Science, July 26

    In a new survey, 43 percent of parents of children ages 6 months through 4 years said they would refuse the shots for their kids. An additional 27 percent were uncertain.

  76. Sorry, Summer Styles, July 20

    We all know what happened with summer 2020. Then 2021 was dampened by Delta. This year, any anticipated return to revelry has been hampered by … *waves hands at everything.* Is there hope for enjoying the once fun season?

  77. Post-Lockdown, I’m Learning to Let Go of My Young Adult Kids — Again Op Ed, July 16

    When my adult children came home during Covid lockdown, I loved feeling I could protect them.

  78. The Wait for Little Kid Vaccines Is Over. Parental Exhaustion Isn’t. Op Ed, June 25

    The payoff feels somewhat anticlimactic.

  79. Covid Vaccines Slowly Roll Out for Children Under 5 National, June 21

    It was a milestone in the coronavirus pandemic, 18 months after adults first began receiving shots against the virus. The response from parents was notably muted.

  80. Vaccines roll out slowly for U.S. children younger than 5. National, June 21

    Although opening up shots for children under 5 is a milestone, this long-awaited phase of the U.S. immunization effort is being greeted with mixed emotions.

  81. Vaccines for Young Children Are Coming, but Many Parents Have Tough Questions Science, June 18

    The vaccines seem safe for children and are likely to protect against severe illness. But data on efficacy is thin, and most children have already been infected.

  82. Your child is almost 5. Here’s what some experts say about Covid vaccine options for that age group. Well, June 18

    Parents of 4-year-olds should start the vaccination process as soon as possible, according to experts, even if that means beginning with the lower-dose version.

  83. What to Know About the Covid Vaccine for Little Kids Well, June 17

    Here are answers to five common questions.

  84. A Better Way to Measure Immunity in Children Science, June 17

    Some scientists believe that a clearer picture of Covid vaccine efficacy could have emerged sooner if investigators had tracked certain immune cells, not just antibodies.

  85. Relief for Parents N Y T Now, June 17

    Covid vaccines for young children are finally coming.

  86. Parents Anxious to Vaccinate Young Children Describe an Agonizing Wait Washington, June 15

    Times readers with babies, toddlers or preschoolers who are unvaccinated against the coronavirus wrote in about worries and strains, loneliness and lost time.

  87. Just How Burned Out Are Parents? Op Ed, June 11

    Take this Times test to find out.

  88. Our Kids Lost Special Moments During the Pandemic. They Won’t Get Them All Back. Op Ed, June 8

    My fourth grader thinks about every event she’s missed, and I can’t pretend it doesn’t hurt.

  89. The Anti-Vaccine Movement’s New Frontier Magazine, May 25

    A wave of parents has been radicalized by Covid-era misinformation to reject ordinary childhood immunizations — with potentially lethal consequences.