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  1. Why I Would Never Donate Sperm in the United States Op Ed, Today

    Children deserve better than to feel left in the dark against their will.

  2. Mi hijo se fue, pero nuestra conversación continúa En español, Today

    Cada noche le escribo en un diario a mi hijo de 12 años y continúo una conversación que iniciamos apenas tres días antes de que muriera inesperadamente.

  3. ‘Getting Your Pink Back:’ How Moms Felt Like Themselves Again After Having a Baby Express, December 19

    Flamingos, which can lose their bright color when tending to their young but get it back over time, have been a helpful metaphor for some women in their postpartum experiences.

  4. Surveilling Speech Won’t Increase Birthrates Op Ed, December 18

    It’s easier for governments to restrict freedom of expression than it is to fix material conditions.

  5. How the Right Claimed ‘Crunchy’ Well, December 18

    Once, eating whole foods and avoiding toxins was associated with a lefty worldview. Now, being a “crunchy mom” is more often about “health freedom.”

  6. Su hija desapareció en 1999. Nunca se rindió En español, December 13

    La búsqueda que Song Gil-yong realizó durante 25 años de su hija desaparecida en Corea del Sur la convirtió en un trágico símbolo nacional de devoción paternal inquebrantable.

  7. Cómo hablar de pornografía con tu hijo adolescente En español, December 12

    Lo más probable es que tu hijo ya haya visto pornografía en internet. Tu papel es abordarla abiertamente, dicen los expertos.

  8. How to Talk to Your Teen About Pornography Science, December 12

    Odds are your adolescent has already encountered online pornography. Your role is to openly address it, scholars say.

  9. His Daughter Went Missing in 1999. He Couldn’t Let It Go. Express, December 12

    A father’s 25-year search for his missing daughter in South Korea made him a tragic national symbol of unwavering parental devotion.

  10. A Message for Girls About Womanhood Op Ed, December 12

    Girls would be less dispirited if more of them felt their intrinsic power.

  11. Women Need More Help to Rise in the Workplace Special Sections, December 11

    A DealBook Summit panel said a lack of helpful policies was hindering female advancement, while freezing eggs to postpone motherhood did not always work out.

  12. En estas aplicaciones hay una oscura promesa: madres que abusan de sus hijos En español, December 11

    Ciertas apps para celulares descargadas de Apple y Google pueden permitir a padres y otros abusadores conectar con pedófilos que pagan por ver —y guiar— conductas delictivas.

  13. Reflections on Motherhood, Careers and Identity Letters, December 11

    Readers respond to an essay by Daniela J. Lamas. Also: Andy Griffith’s Mayberry today; Donald Trump’s loyalty test; never an exile; choosing charities.

  14. It Wasn’t You. It Was Your Parents. Styles, December 10

    A decade after it was published, the book “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents” is surging in popularity and making people rethink their family dynamic.

  15. The Tennessee Trans Treatment Case Is About Age, Not Sex Op Ed, December 8

    The state’s ban on gender-affirming medical care for minors passes the constitutional test.

  16. A New Movie Dares to Suggest that Motherhood Might Be (Gasp) Fun Op Ed, December 8

    “Nightbitch” seems like a horror film about the transformations demanded by motherhood, but its underlying message is much more radical than that.

  17. Teens Are Getting Botox. I’m Going Full Crone in 2025. Op Ed, December 7

    In pushing back against beauty standards, I’m trying to set an example for my girls.

  18. Orli’s Gift, in Her Life and Death Letters, December 7

    Readers respond to Sarah Wildman’s essay about her daughter’s lessons in facing mortality.

  19. On These Apps, the Dark Promise of Mothers Sexually Abusing Children Investigative, December 7

    Smartphone apps downloaded from Apple and Google can allow parents and other abusers to connect with pedophiles who pay to watch — and direct — criminal behavior.

  20. Amy Adams, Marielle Heller and How ‘Nightbitch’ Speaks to Women Arts & Leisure, December 6

    They set out to subvert expectations for depictions of motherhood. “There’s conscientious discomfort,” Heller says. Reactions have been polarized.

  21. My Son Is Gone. Our Conversation Goes On. Styles, December 6

    Three days before my child unexpectedly died, he primed me to keep living.

  22. Lo que me hubiera gustado que me dijeran sobre la maternidad En español, November 29

    Del mismo modo que es un alivio decidir tener un hijo y quedar embarazada, también lo es tomar la decisión clara de no tenerlo.

  23. What I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Motherhood Op Ed, November 28

    The uncertainty before making a decision about having kids is the hardest part.

  24. If My Dying Daughter Could Face Her Mortality, Why Couldn’t the Rest of Us? Op Ed, November 25

    A bereaved mother’s case against our grief-phobic culture.

  25. No Grandchildren in Their Lives Letters, November 23

    Readers respond to a front-page article about parents whose children don’t plan to have children of their own.

  26. Did School Battles Hurt Democrats in Liberal Strongholds? National, November 18

    Voters in the Virginia suburbs shifted toward Trump. Some said they were still frustrated by pandemic closures and fights over gender, race and testing in schools.

  27. Tiny Love Stories: ‘I Had a Crush on the Teacher’ Styles, September 10

    Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words.

  28. Does Everyone Want to Be on the ‘Mommy Track’? Op Ed, March 16

    More people are rejecting the false binary of remote work vs. the corporate ladder.

  29. ‘What American Families Experienced Is Not Something That You Get Over’ Op Ed, March 13

    Four years after the pandemic began, parents continue to struggle with a broken child care system, but there’s reason to hope for a better future.

  30. How to Parent in a World Under Siege? Book Review, March 12

    In her elegant essay collection, “Lessons for Survival,” Emily Raboteau confronts climate collapse, societal breakdown and the Covid pandemic while trying to raise children in a responsible way.

  31. Resfriados, tos y covid: por qué parece que estamos siempre enfermos En español, January 9

    Después de la pandemia, el invierno parece ser un desfile interminable de malestares. ¿Pasó algo?

  32. The Case of the Never-Ending Illness Well, December 15

    Post-pandemic, winter has become one big blur of coughs and colds. Did something change?

  33. Is Remote Work the Answer to Women’s Prayers, or a New ‘Mommy Track’? Sunday Business, November 12

    Post-pandemic work-from-home norms allowed more women to stay in the work force than ever before. Remote work could also make it harder to get ahead.

  34. The ‘Silver Lining to the Pandemic’ for Working Mothers Upshot, October 28

    The share of women working has reached a record high, with the biggest increases among mothers of children under 5.

  35. The Upside of a Population Decline Letters, October 5

    Readers disagree with an essay expressing concern about a decline after a peak. Also: Rudy Giuliani’s drinking; book bans; masks in hospitals; wedding magic.

  36. Fathers Gained Family Time in the Pandemic. Many Don’t Want to Give It Back. Upshot, March 12

    A substantial share of fathers who took on more domestic work during lockdowns have kept it up, new data shows, and rearranged their work lives to do so.

  37. Arguing About Masks and Mandates Letters, February 22

    Readers criticize a column by Bret Stephens asserting that mask mandates were ineffective. Also: Children and loss; John Fetterman; population growth.

  38. The New Etiquette of Kids and Coughs Op Ed, December 14

    When a viral question goes viral.

  39. The Return of Holiday Season Agita Op Ed, November 16

    The pandemic gave some parents a reprieve. That may be over.

  40. Remote Work Is Here to Stay. Lean In, Employers. Op Ed, October 22

    A baby boomlet may not have been 2021’s only productivity increase.

  41. Spending on Children Surged During the Pandemic. It Didn’t Last. National, October 1

    As programs expire, such federal spending is returning to prior levels: $1 for every $6 spent on older adults.

  42. Want to Regain Parents’ Trust, Public Health Institutions? Be Humble. Op Ed, September 10

    Definitive statements on open questions isn’t the way.

  43. Prosecute Trump, Despite the Risks? Letters, September 1

    Readers react to an editorial urging an indictment to show that he “is not above the law.” Also: Abortion and data privacy; Moderna’s suit; children’s mental health.

  44. Lo que debes saber para proteger a tus hijos de la viruela del mono en Español, August 22

    Según los expertos, los niños no tienen riesgo alto de infección. Pero ofrecen consejos para cuidar a todos en el regreso a clases, desde los más pequeños hasta los universitarios.

  45. How to Protect Against Monkeypox as School Starts Well, August 17

    Experts say children are not at a high risk of infection. But they have advice to keep everyone — from toddlers to college kids — safe.

  46. Here’s What School Covid Policies Should Look Like This Year Op Ed, August 4

    The crisis kids face at this point in the pandemic is not the virus but the cost of so many years of disrupted school.

  47. How Some Parents Changed Their Politics in the Pandemic Business, August 1

    They were once Democrats and Republicans. But fears for their children in the pandemic transformed their thinking, turning them into single-issue voters for November’s midterms.

  48. Few Parents Intend to Have Very Young Children Vaccinated Against Covid Science, July 26

    In a new survey, 43 percent of parents of children ages 6 months through 4 years said they would refuse the shots for their kids. An additional 27 percent were uncertain.

  49. Sorry, Summer Styles, July 20

    We all know what happened with summer 2020. Then 2021 was dampened by Delta. This year, any anticipated return to revelry has been hampered by … *waves hands at everything.* Is there hope for enjoying the once fun season?

  50. Post-Lockdown, I’m Learning to Let Go of My Young Adult Kids — Again Op Ed, July 16

    When my adult children came home during Covid lockdown, I loved feeling I could protect them.

  51. The Wait for Little Kid Vaccines Is Over. Parental Exhaustion Isn’t. Op Ed, June 25

    The payoff feels somewhat anticlimactic.

  52. Covid Vaccines Slowly Roll Out for Children Under 5 National, June 21

    It was a milestone in the coronavirus pandemic, 18 months after adults first began receiving shots against the virus. The response from parents was notably muted.

  53. Vaccines roll out slowly for U.S. children younger than 5. National, June 21

    Although opening up shots for children under 5 is a milestone, this long-awaited phase of the U.S. immunization effort is being greeted with mixed emotions.

  54. Vaccines for Young Children Are Coming, but Many Parents Have Tough Questions Science, June 18

    The vaccines seem safe for children and are likely to protect against severe illness. But data on efficacy is thin, and most children have already been infected.

  55. Your child is almost 5. Here’s what some experts say about Covid vaccine options for that age group. Well, June 18

    Parents of 4-year-olds should start the vaccination process as soon as possible, according to experts, even if that means beginning with the lower-dose version.

  56. What to Know About the Covid Vaccine for Little Kids Well, June 17

    Here are answers to five common questions.

  57. A Better Way to Measure Immunity in Children Science, June 17

    Some scientists believe that a clearer picture of Covid vaccine efficacy could have emerged sooner if investigators had tracked certain immune cells, not just antibodies.

  58. Relief for Parents N Y T Now, June 17

    Covid vaccines for young children are finally coming.

  59. Parents Anxious to Vaccinate Young Children Describe an Agonizing Wait Washington, June 15

    Times readers with babies, toddlers or preschoolers who are unvaccinated against the coronavirus wrote in about worries and strains, loneliness and lost time.

  60. Just How Burned Out Are Parents? Op Ed, June 11

    Take this Times test to find out.

  61. Our Kids Lost Special Moments During the Pandemic. They Won’t Get Them All Back. Op Ed, June 8

    My fourth grader thinks about every event she’s missed, and I can’t pretend it doesn’t hurt.

  62. The Anti-Vaccine Movement’s New Frontier Magazine, May 25

    A wave of parents has been radicalized by Covid-era misinformation to reject ordinary childhood immunizations — with potentially lethal consequences.