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  1. Birthright Citizenship Plan Faces Costly Verification Hurdles U.S., Today

    Experts warn that enforcing President Trump’s order to limit birthright citizenship would require building an expensive and fragmented verification system.

  2. What’s Your Mom’s Favorite Mantra? Well, Yesterday

    Share the go-to motto or oft-repeated bit of advice that has stayed with you throughout the years.

  3. Le enseñé todo a mi hijo, excepto cómo tomarse unas vacaciones En español, March 29

    Estaba a punto de irse a la universidad cuando comprendí que nunca lo había llevado a unas vacaciones de verdad.

  4. Can We Ask Our Son to Go on Weight-Loss Drugs in Exchange for a House? Magazine, March 28

    My husband wants to condition the gift on our son’s getting on a GLP-1 program. I feel that a gift is a gift and you should not extort a grown man.

  5. Is It OK to Cut Ties With a Friend Because of Her Views on Vaccines? Magazine, March 25

    It really bothers me that she is selfishly choosing to put her children and others at risk.

  6. Two States Sue Cord Blood Bank Over False Advertisements Health, March 25

    The attorneys general of Texas and Arizona contend that Cord Blood Registry, which stores umbilical cord cells, profited from misleading new parents.

  7. Our Youngest Child Has Cut Ties With Our Family. Help! Style, March 25

    A reader is distraught over the rift with her 37-year-old child, who is insisting on having a neutral party present for any potential meeting with the rest of the family.

  8. The Struggle to Find Good, Affordable Schools New York, March 19

    New York parents can’t always afford to live in neighborhoods with good public schools, and other options are more expensive than ever.

  9. I Taught My Son Everything, Except How to Take a Vacation Magazine, March 19

    He was about to leave for college when I realized: I had never taken him on a real vacation.

  10. Doctors Say Court Ruling Can’t Undo Kennedy’s Vaccine Damage Well, March 17

    A federal judge halted the Trump administration’s changes to vaccine recommendations, but the mistrust and fear they have stoked may last for years.

  11. As Income Gap Grows, So Do Fears Over Access to a Quality Education New York, March 17

    Leaders and parents worry that a widening economic divide amid the current affordability crisis could amplify the role that money plays in access to a robust education in New York.

  12. In Deep-Red Idaho, a Republican Rift Over Schools and ‘Parental Choice’ U.S., March 16

    Does “choice” in Idaho mean vouchers for private-school tuition or publicly funded remote learning that has brought AP classes and advanced math to the state’s rural reaches?

  13. Turning Point USA Clubs Expand to High Schools Across America Video, March 15

    Efforts by high school students to start Turning Point USA “Club America” chapters nationwide have created discord among students, teachers, administrators and parents in some states.

  14. My Sex Addiction Nearly Wrecked Our Marriage. Do We Have to Tell the Kids? Magazine, March 14

    My wife worries that withholding such a significant fact becomes an ongoing deception that could undermine trust.

  15. ¿Quieres una buena vida social? Empieza con tus padres En español, March 14

    Un estudio que analizó a un grupo de personas por 20 años sugiere que las relaciones estrechas con los miembros de la familia durante la adolescencia pueden conducir a una nutrida red de amistades en la edad adulta.

  16. My Sister Won’t Vacation With My Kids. Is She Being Selfish? Well, March 12

    Our Ask the Therapist columnist, Lori Gottlieb, advises a reader whose sibling moved away and then canceled a family trip.

  17. Could Free Child Care Last the Full Day? Some Working Parents Hope So. New York, March 12

    New York City will start offering free child care for 2-year-olds this fall. A question for the Mamdani administration is whether it will be available past 2:30 p.m.

  18. Tiny Love Stories: ‘At 35, I Lost My Virginity’ Style, March 11

    Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words.

  19. Teens Don’t Need No Thought Control Opinion, March 11

    The high schoolers fighting back against tech use.

  20. In Talking to Parents About Vaccines, Pediatricians Navigate a Sea of Misinformation Health, March 11

    Practitioners nationwide are striving to do what’s best for children’s health, while staying supportive in the face of mistrust and confusion.

  21. A.I. Incites a New Wave of Grieving Parents Fighting for Online Safety Technology, March 10

    Blaming chatbots, they are joining an earlier push for better protections by parents who say social media contributed to their children’s deaths.

  22. iPads in Kindergarten, YouTube on Breaks: The School Screen-Time Battle New York, March 10

    Mounting evidence shows that excessive computer use can harm children, so parents are cutting back at home. Now, the debate has shifted to the classroom.

  23. Was Tyra Banks the Villain? Or Were We? Opinion, March 8

    A fashion insider and two culture writers dissect “America’s Next Top Model.”

  24. La comida chatarra arruinó el paladar de los niños En español, March 6

    Existió un tiempo en que los niños en Estados Unidos comían mariscos, rábanos y conservas sin quejarse. Ahora vivimos en una cultura del remilgo.

  25. Parents of School Shooters Are Being Prosecuted. Should They Be? U.S., March 5

    The country is casting an ever wider net in its search for accountability after mass shootings. Charging parents is an emerging tactic.

  26. Why Does Child Care Seem Less Affordable Than Ever? The Upshot, March 5

    It has always been expensive, but recently prices have risen faster than inflation.

  27. I Saw a Child Who Seemed Neglected. Should I Have Done Something? Magazine, March 4

    I worry that I’m piling assumptions onto a family I know nothing about, a family that might be doing its best.

  28. A.I. in New York Schools: What Lies Ahead? New York, March 4

    The city has been absent from the list of school districts around the nation that are using A.I. in the classroom. That could change.

  29. Man Who Gave His Teen a Rifle Is Guilty of Murder After School Shooting U.S., March 3

    A jury found that Colin Gray, the father of the suspect, bore criminal responsibility for the attack at a Georgia school by failing to heed warnings of his son’s struggles.

  30. Esta experta en crianza cree que tus hijos necesitan más fuego y cuchillos En español, March 3

    En ‘El arte perdido de educar’, Michaeleen Doucleff prometió simplificar la vida familiar. En su nuevo libro, ‘Dopamine Kids’, plantea un reto mayor: ¿pueden los padres renunciar a sus propios vicios y volver a lo esencial?

  31. Supreme Court Sides With Religious Parents, Blocking California’s Trans Student Policy U.S., March 3

    Christian teachers and parents challenged the state’s policies, which they say require schools to hide students’ transgender status from their parents.

  32. Anti-Vaccine Influencers Are Only Getting Stronger Opinion, December 17

    I was wrong about how to push back.

  33. The Laptop That Ate Your Child’s Classroom Opinion, November 16

    Asking students to drill down on their schoolwork amid an array of digital distractions is inimical to learning.

  34. What Women Really Want: Work Boundaries Opinion, November 2

    Discussion of women in the workplace often focuses on flexible hours, but what’s actually needed is shift work — pioneered by the medical profession.

  35. Seeking Covid Shots for Their Children, Some Parents Hit a Wall Well, October 7

    Children under 12 need different versions of Covid vaccines, but many pharmacies and pediatricians’ offices aren’t stocking them.

  36. Kennedy’s Vaccine Panel Is a Calamity Opinion, September 19

    “We should be thinking that we’re heading for more damaging changes.”

  37. In Texas, Parents Fighting Vaccinations Say Their Movement Is Winning U.S., September 18

    Public health advocates hoped that the measles outbreak might persuade the reluctant to get shots. That has not turned out to be true.

  38. Robert F. Kennedy Jr.’s Impact So Far: ‘The Worst Possible Case’ Opinion, August 13

    David Wallace-Wells and Emily Oster argue that the effects of MAHA will be long-lasting.

  39. This Ohio Farm Community Is a Mecca for the ‘MAHA Mom’ U.S., August 11

    In a neighborhood that appeals to people from both the right and the left, residents strive for a finely tuned state of political harmony.

  40. Robert F. Kennedy Jr. Has an Excited Fan Club: Conservative Christian Moms National, January 28

    These parents believe in home-schooling and distrust food and drug companies. In Kennedy, they see “a bull in the china shop.”

  41. Pediatricians Shift Tactics to Sway Vaccine Skeptics Well, January 24

    As trust in medicine declines and vaccine hesitancy spreads, doctors are changing how they talk about lifesaving childhood shots.

  42. Did School Battles Hurt Democrats in Liberal Strongholds? National, November 18

    Voters in the Virginia suburbs shifted toward Trump. Some said they were still frustrated by pandemic closures and fights over gender, race and testing in schools.

  43. Tiny Love Stories: ‘I Had a Crush on the Teacher’ Styles, September 10

    Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words.

  44. Does Everyone Want to Be on the ‘Mommy Track’? Op Ed, March 16

    More people are rejecting the false binary of remote work vs. the corporate ladder.

  45. ‘What American Families Experienced Is Not Something That You Get Over’ Op Ed, March 13

    Four years after the pandemic began, parents continue to struggle with a broken child care system, but there’s reason to hope for a better future.

  46. How to Parent in a World Under Siege? Book Review, March 12

    In her elegant essay collection, “Lessons for Survival,” Emily Raboteau confronts climate collapse, societal breakdown and the Covid pandemic while trying to raise children in a responsible way.

  47. Resfriados, tos y covid: por qué parece que estamos siempre enfermos En español, January 9

    Después de la pandemia, el invierno parece ser un desfile interminable de malestares. ¿Pasó algo?

  48. The Case of the Never-Ending Illness Well, December 15

    Post-pandemic, winter has become one big blur of coughs and colds. Did something change?

  49. Is Remote Work the Answer to Women’s Prayers, or a New ‘Mommy Track’? Sunday Business, November 12

    Post-pandemic work-from-home norms allowed more women to stay in the work force than ever before. Remote work could also make it harder to get ahead.

  50. The ‘Silver Lining to the Pandemic’ for Working Mothers Upshot, October 28

    The share of women working has reached a record high, with the biggest increases among mothers of children under 5.

  51. The Upside of a Population Decline Letters, October 5

    Readers disagree with an essay expressing concern about a decline after a peak. Also: Rudy Giuliani’s drinking; book bans; masks in hospitals; wedding magic.

  52. Fathers Gained Family Time in the Pandemic. Many Don’t Want to Give It Back. Upshot, March 12

    A substantial share of fathers who took on more domestic work during lockdowns have kept it up, new data shows, and rearranged their work lives to do so.

  53. Arguing About Masks and Mandates Letters, February 22

    Readers criticize a column by Bret Stephens asserting that mask mandates were ineffective. Also: Children and loss; John Fetterman; population growth.

  54. The New Etiquette of Kids and Coughs Op Ed, December 14

    When a viral question goes viral.

  55. The Return of Holiday Season Agita Op Ed, November 16

    The pandemic gave some parents a reprieve. That may be over.

  56. Remote Work Is Here to Stay. Lean In, Employers. Op Ed, October 22

    A baby boomlet may not have been 2021’s only productivity increase.

  57. Spending on Children Surged During the Pandemic. It Didn’t Last. National, October 1

    As programs expire, such federal spending is returning to prior levels: $1 for every $6 spent on older adults.

  58. Want to Regain Parents’ Trust, Public Health Institutions? Be Humble. Op Ed, September 10

    Definitive statements on open questions isn’t the way.

  59. Prosecute Trump, Despite the Risks? Letters, September 1

    Readers react to an editorial urging an indictment to show that he “is not above the law.” Also: Abortion and data privacy; Moderna’s suit; children’s mental health.

  60. Lo que debes saber para proteger a tus hijos de la viruela del mono en Español, August 22

    Según los expertos, los niños no tienen riesgo alto de infección. Pero ofrecen consejos para cuidar a todos en el regreso a clases, desde los más pequeños hasta los universitarios.

  61. How to Protect Against Monkeypox as School Starts Well, August 17

    Experts say children are not at a high risk of infection. But they have advice to keep everyone — from toddlers to college kids — safe.

  62. Here’s What School Covid Policies Should Look Like This Year Op Ed, August 4

    The crisis kids face at this point in the pandemic is not the virus but the cost of so many years of disrupted school.

  63. How Some Parents Changed Their Politics in the Pandemic Business, August 1

    They were once Democrats and Republicans. But fears for their children in the pandemic transformed their thinking, turning them into single-issue voters for November’s midterms.

  64. Few Parents Intend to Have Very Young Children Vaccinated Against Covid Science, July 26

    In a new survey, 43 percent of parents of children ages 6 months through 4 years said they would refuse the shots for their kids. An additional 27 percent were uncertain.

  65. Sorry, Summer Styles, July 20

    We all know what happened with summer 2020. Then 2021 was dampened by Delta. This year, any anticipated return to revelry has been hampered by … *waves hands at everything.* Is there hope for enjoying the once fun season?

  66. Post-Lockdown, I’m Learning to Let Go of My Young Adult Kids — Again Op Ed, July 16

    When my adult children came home during Covid lockdown, I loved feeling I could protect them.

  67. The Wait for Little Kid Vaccines Is Over. Parental Exhaustion Isn’t. Op Ed, June 25

    The payoff feels somewhat anticlimactic.

  68. Covid Vaccines Slowly Roll Out for Children Under 5 National, June 21

    It was a milestone in the coronavirus pandemic, 18 months after adults first began receiving shots against the virus. The response from parents was notably muted.

  69. Vaccines roll out slowly for U.S. children younger than 5. National, June 21

    Although opening up shots for children under 5 is a milestone, this long-awaited phase of the U.S. immunization effort is being greeted with mixed emotions.

  70. Vaccines for Young Children Are Coming, but Many Parents Have Tough Questions Science, June 18

    The vaccines seem safe for children and are likely to protect against severe illness. But data on efficacy is thin, and most children have already been infected.

  71. Your child is almost 5. Here’s what some experts say about Covid vaccine options for that age group. Well, June 18

    Parents of 4-year-olds should start the vaccination process as soon as possible, according to experts, even if that means beginning with the lower-dose version.

  72. What to Know About the Covid Vaccine for Little Kids Well, June 17

    Here are answers to five common questions.

  73. A Better Way to Measure Immunity in Children Science, June 17

    Some scientists believe that a clearer picture of Covid vaccine efficacy could have emerged sooner if investigators had tracked certain immune cells, not just antibodies.

  74. Relief for Parents N Y T Now, June 17

    Covid vaccines for young children are finally coming.

  75. Parents Anxious to Vaccinate Young Children Describe an Agonizing Wait Washington, June 15

    Times readers with babies, toddlers or preschoolers who are unvaccinated against the coronavirus wrote in about worries and strains, loneliness and lost time.

  76. Just How Burned Out Are Parents? Op Ed, June 11

    Take this Times test to find out.

  77. Our Kids Lost Special Moments During the Pandemic. They Won’t Get Them All Back. Op Ed, June 8

    My fourth grader thinks about every event she’s missed, and I can’t pretend it doesn’t hurt.

  78. The Anti-Vaccine Movement’s New Frontier Magazine, May 25

    A wave of parents has been radicalized by Covid-era misinformation to reject ordinary childhood immunizations — with potentially lethal consequences.